Traveling the Centered Path

with Benjamin Rea, LCSW

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Sensory Processing, Autism, and Relationships: Why Fight or Flight Can Take Over

For people on the autism spectrum, sensory processing differences and fight/flight responses can make relationships challenging. Executive function difficulties under stress may impair communication and problem solving. Therapy provides strategies for self-regulation, co-regulation, and navigating relationships with awareness and compassion.

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The 30 Percent Rule: Staying Happy With Your Spouse After Retirement

Retirement brings more time with your spouse, but more time together does not automatically equal more harmony. Healthy couples spend about 30% of their time together. This article explores strategies to navigate the transition, maintain individuality, strengthen connection, and how therapy can support couples in creating a balanced and fulfilling retirement.

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Self Regulation vs Other Regulation: Why It Matters in Relationships.

Many relationship conflicts are not about the issue itself but about regulation. When we rely on others to calm our nervous system, tension builds. Understanding the difference between self regulation and other regulation can transform the way we handle conflict, connection, and emotional safety.

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Let’s Talk About Codependency | Fact vs. Fiction

Codependency is often misunderstood as being too needy or loving too much. In reality, it is usually a nervous system pattern rooted in early attachment and over responsibility for others’ emotions. This article explores the myths, the science, and how to build secure, balanced relationships without losing yourself.

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